Would you rather: know how you die, or when you die?

By Mahi Tahi Media

“I’d go back and learn how things were back then”

Ohinga is back in the studio with a bunch of rangatahi playing a game that we all know and love: Would You Rather.

Would you rather go back to the past and meet your loved ones who passed away, or go to the future to meet your children or grandchildren? Would you rather know how you die or when you die?

This is part of our reo Māori series, Ohinga, created by Mahi Tahi Media, with funding from Te Māngai Pāho and the NZ on Air Public Interest Journalism Fund.

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